Blame Game

Conflict is a part of every “normal” family. Conflict happens when we blame others. How we deal with and navigate through the conflict is the key. There is a war that is raging within us because we want to get our way. We want to be heard and when challenged we want to defend ourselves. To make it through conflict (alive) we must constantly put ourselves in the other person’s place and learn to see things differently. We have to admit fault and be quick to forgive. To have peace in our family, we must become a peacemaker. A peacemaker thinks, “I’ll go first…I’ll make things right by doing the right thing…"